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Hester Maria COTTON

Female 1707 - 1773  (66 years)


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  • Name Hester Maria COTTON 
    Birth 1707  Tremeirchion, Flintshire, Wales Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Physical Description A devoted and dominating mother, forceful and attractive woman. A trim figure, extremely handsome and polished, charming and witty.  [1
    Physical Description She was for all personal and mental Excellence the most accomplished female that ever my Eyes beheld. Her shape so accurate, her Carriage so graceful, her Eyes so brilliant, her Knowledge so extensive, & her manners so pleasing that it was no wonder She had such Choice of Lovers in her Youth, & admirers in her advanced Age: She died aged 66. leaving behind her no equal for Powers of delighting her Friends and Companions.  [2
    Godparent / sponsor 17 Apr 1768 
    Godparent to Anna Maria Thrale
    Note Bef. 1773 
    Hester Maria's brother (Sir Robert Salusbury Cotton) sought to protect his sister Hester Maria from her husband John Salusbury. John Salusbury had squandered his own money and was starting to dip into his sister's money. Sir Robert Salusbury Cotton offered his sister Hester Maria and daughter Hester Lynch the use of his London home in Albermarle Street if they would make a break from him.

    Sir Robert also intended to change his will leaving his estate to Hester Lynch, but he died before his Will was changed.

    Hester later wrote …

    At which period we left Wales and came to my uncle's house in Albemarle Street, where he told my mother he should follow in less than 2 months; make a new will, and leave poor Fiddle 10,000. ... I fancy some rough words passed concerning this by my uncle certainly but ill-brooked my father's pride, and he still less willingly endured being informed that, if his quality friends would provide him some distant establishment, my mother and myself should share the old baronet's fortune.

     
    Death 18 Jun 1773  Streatham Park, Streatham, Surrey, England Find all individuals with events at this location  [3
    Cause: Breast cancer 
    • On her death bed, Dr. Samuel Johnson kissed her and said …

      God bless you dearest Madam! for Jesus Christ's sake, and receive your Soul to Salvation!".

    Burial aft. 18 Jun 1773  Saint Leonards Church, Streatham, Surrey, England Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Hester Maria Cotton's mourning tablet
    Hester Maria Cotton's mourning tablet
    By Joseph Wilton, epitaph by Dr. Samuel Johnson.
    Note 1774 
    Her daughter, Hester Lynch Thrale née Salusbury wrote …

    The epitaph engraved on my mother’s monument shows how deserving she was of general applause. I asked Johnson why he named her person before her mind. He said it was because everybody could judge of the one, and but few of the other.

     
    Note 14 Jan 1779 
    Hester Lynch Thrale née Salusbury wrote in Thraliana

    Murphy has been very kind to me, he has translated the Epitaph Johnson wrote upon my Mothers Monument; his kindness is more acceptable to me than his Verses—but the Verses are well enough too:

    Near this place
    Are deposited the remains of
    Hester Maria.
    The daughter of Sir Thomas Cotton of Combermere, in the County of Cheshire, Bart., the wife of John Salusbury Esqr of the county of Flint.
    She was born in the year 1707. Married 1739. died in 1773.


    A pleasing form, where every grace combined,
    With genius blest, a pure enlightened mind;
    Benevolence on all that smiles bestowed,
    A heart that for her friends with love o’erflowed:
    In language skilled, by science formed to please,
    Her mirth was wit, her gravity was ease.


    Graceful in all, the happy mien she knew,
    Which even to virtue gives the limits due;
    Whate’er employed her, that she seemed to choose,
    Her house, her friends, her business, or the muse.
    Admired and loved, the theme of general praise,
    All to such virtue wished a length of days.


    But sad reverse! with slow-consuming pains,
    Th’ envenomed cancer revelled in her veins;
    Preyed on her spirits—stole each power away;
    Gradual she sank, yet smiling in decay;
    She smiled in hope, by sore affliction tried,
    And in that hope the pious Christian died.

     
    Note 1786 
    Hester Lynch Thrale née Salusbury wrote of her mother …

    Mr. Murphy, who admired her talents and delighted in her company, did me the favour to paraphrase this elegant inscription in verses which I fancy have never yet been published. His fame has long been out of my power to increase as a poet: as a man of sensibility perhaps these lines may set him higher than he now stands. I remember with gratitude the friendly tears which prevented him from speaking as he put them into my hand.

     
    Property Brynbella, Tremeirchion, Flintshire, Wales Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Address:
    Lleweney Hall 
    Brynbella rear façade 1799
    Brynbella rear façade 1799
    Brynbella front façade July 2001
    Brynbella front façade July 2001
    Brynbella rear façade 1799
    Brynbella rear façade 1799
    Person ID I683  UK Thrale family
    Last Modified 29 Oct 2024 

    Father Sir, 2nd Baronet Thomas COTTON,   b. 1672, Combermere Abbey, Combermere, Acton, Cheshire, England Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 12 Jun 1715 (Age 43 years) 
    Mother Lady Philadelphia LYNCH,   b. 1682   d. 1758, Finchley, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 76 years) 
    Marriage 2 Nov 1689 
    Notes 
    • Philadelphia Lynch had seventeen children, the eleventh of which was Hester Maria.
    Family ID F317  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family John SALUSBURY,   b. 1 May 1707, Lleweni Hall, Denbigh, Denbighshire, Wales Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 2 Nov 1762, Lleweni Hall, Denbigh, Denbighshire, Wales Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 55 years) 
    Marriage 1738  Saint Pauls Cathedral, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Residence Aft 1738  Bodvel, Caernarvonshire, Wales Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Bodvell Hall 
    Note 16 Jan 1741 
    Hester Maria's daughter Hester Lynch Salusbury was the first surviving child. There were 2 or 3 earlier non-surviving babies. 
    Residence From 1747  Offley, Hertfordshire, England Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Residence From 1747  24 Dean Street, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Notes 
    • Hester Maria's brother, Sir Robert Salusbury Cotton, sought to protect his sister Hester Maria from her husband John Salusbury. John Salusbury had squandered his own money and was starting to dip into his sister's money. Sir Robert Salusbury Cotton offered his sister Hester Maria and daughter Hester Lynch the use of his London home in Albermarle Street if they would make a break from him. Sir Robert also intended to change his will leaving his estate to Hester Lynch, but he died before his Will was changed. Hester Lynch Thrale née Salusbury later wrote …

      At which period we left Wales and came to my uncle's house in Albemarle Street, where he told my mother he should follow in less than 2 months; make a new will, and leave poor Fiddle 10,000. … I fancy some rough words passed concerning this by my uncle certainly but ill-brooked my father's pride, and he still less willingly endured being informed that, if his quality friends would provide him some distant establishment, my mother and myself should share the old baronet's fortune.

    • John Salusbury and Hester Maria were distant cousins.
    Children 
     1. Frances SALUSBURY
    +2. Hester Lynch SALUSBURY,   b. 16 Jan 1741, Bodvel, Caernarvonshire, Wales Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 2 May 1821, Clifton, Gloucestershire, England Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 80 years)  [Father: Adopted]  [Mother: Adopted]
    Family ID F53  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 30 Oct 2024 

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 1707 - Tremeirchion, Flintshire, Wales Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage - 1738 - Saint Pauls Cathedral, Middlesex, England Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsResidence - Bodvell Hall - Aft 1738 - Bodvel, Caernarvonshire, Wales Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsResidence - From 1747 - Offley, Hertfordshire, England Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsResidence - From 1747 - 24 Dean Street, Middlesex, England Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - Cause: Breast cancer - 18 Jun 1773 - Streatham Park, Streatham, Surrey, England Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBurial - aft. 18 Jun 1773 - Saint Leonards Church, Streatham, Surrey, England Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsProperty - Address:
    Lleweney Hall - - Brynbella, Tremeirchion, Flintshire, Wales
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  • Sources 
    1. [S39] Mary Hyde, The Thrales of Streatham Park, (Harvard University Press 1977), 2.

    2. [S40] Editor: Katherine C Balderston, Thraliana, (Oxford University Press 1951), Oct 1776.

    3. [S40] Editor: Katherine C Balderston, Thraliana, (Oxford University Press 1951), page 182.